What Is a Transactional Relationship? A transactional relationship is one that works like a give-and-take deal. Each person involved is mostly concerned with what they are receiving in return. It might be emotional support, money, services, attention, or something else. The focus stays on "What do I get if I give?" Such relationships are not always negative. In fact, in business or certain agreements, they can be quite helpful. However, when these relationships happen in love, friendship, or family they often lack true connection, emotional safety, or depth. If someone stays with you only because you pay the bills, or…